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⌈ Secret Post #3476 ⌋

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Re: Have you ever stopped being attracted to someone you were in a relationship with?

[chardmonster]

Yeah, very much so. It happened in flashes when they did something childish or weird and I felt... bad. Awkward and gross.

I kept telling myself I was a horrible selfish person for letting that happen. I mean I was awkward and gross, right? So of course I felt awkward and gross. If they liked me I had to like them. I couldn't throw out a relationship with someone who loved me because there was a very good chance love would never happen again. So I'd find the thing I liked about them again, and keep reminding myself of that until it passed. When you love someone you learn to tolerate shit.

They ended it for me, but apparently they never cared about me at all anyway. I think I wasn't submissive enough, among other issues. So I was doing all that for nothing. I'm now with someone I love who loves me back, because of course love happens again. There are billions of people on this planet.

So OP, if there's a reason you're asking: end a relationship if it feels wrong. Inertia won't get you anywhere good. People deserve to be with people who are attracted to them.