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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-18 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #3484 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3484 ⌋

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Re: let it all out

(Anonymous) 2016-07-19 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Is it ever acceptable to lie?

My mom and I have wildly differing worldviews and I've said some things that weren't true basically to avoid an argument. I've let her believe what she needs to believe because it makes things easier, but now I'm feeling bad because my brain keeps saying that lying is always bad, no matter what the reason.

I feel like my options are:

A) Say nothing and let things continue as they are, letting her believe the lies

B) Come clean, specfically bring up the lies and tell her they WERE lies and admit the truth, no matter how much drama it causes

C) From here on out tell the truth, and if the lies come up, tell her the truth then, but don't purposely bring them up myself

Basically I feel guilty for lying to her, but I also kind of feel like it's already done and to rehash the issue now would just make things even worse. I don't know what to do. :(

Re: let it all out

(Anonymous) 2016-07-19 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
Is it ever acceptable to lie?

Yeah, lots of times.

raspberryrain: (weary)

Re: let it all out

[personal profile] raspberryrain 2016-07-19 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
That's a hard one. I don't know either.

Re: let it all out

(Anonymous) 2016-07-19 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I have to lie about being an atheist because my parents are religious and if they knew I was an atheist they'd cut my rent off. (I can't afford to pay my own rent.) I hate to lie but I'd hate being homeless more.