[ SECRET POST #3486 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3486 ⌋

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[Maya Rudolph & Martin Short]


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[Hamilton/South Park]


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[John Spencer]


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[Daniel Radcliffe]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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[Dune]


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[Assassin's Creed Syndicate]


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[Mulberry]


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Comments

[nightscale]

Nope, but I think part of that is because my brother got married and now has kids so he's grabbed all my parents attention in that regard. Thanks bro!

And my bf's parents don't like me much so they sure as hell aren't trying to push us into getting married(I know his dad wants him to dump me).

I don't know if I want to get married though, maybe? I don't mind the idea of being someone's wife but I kind of balk at the idea of a ceremony, but either way I'm not ready for it yet at all.

[diet_poison]

Why don't they like you? :( that would make me sad. Only long-term relationship I ever had (second longest was a few months and that doesn't seem to cut it) I really liked his parents and they liked me (at least his mom did - I think his dad did too but he was less expressive), and I still miss them tbh. I think it would make me really sad after that experience to seriously date someone whose family didn't like me.

Sounds like if you ever do get married elopement might be the way to go for you :) I feel a little silly for being completely stereotypical in wanting a big wedding and daydreaming about the details, but it's not for everyone!

[nightscale]

We are very, very different people basically.

Like their son is a nerd, it's why I like him and they're tolerant of it but pretty much think that he should have grown out of playing video games when he turned 18, and he ended up dating a nerdy girl, lol(I'm pretty sure they wanted him to get a girlfriend who would make him give up video-games, but instead he got one that introduced him to DnD and other tabletop games, whoops).

I do get on okay with his mother and we can at least have chats but we're not bff's or anything like that, his dad on the other hand asked me once if I liked any sports, I said not really and he never tried talking to me again(but blames me entirely for not speaking to him, okay then). I also don't put up with his shit which he doesn't like but we don't have like massive arguments or anything, we just kind of avoid each other really.

Ha, I have genuinely given thought to eloping if I ever get married, depends on what my SO would want too ofc but I really don't think I could handle an entire room full of people staring at me while I said my vows or whatever.

Nah it's not silly, it's what you like and honestly if I could hack it I'd probably want a nice ceremony too. (I am just very private when it comes to my feelings so the idea of a ceremony makes me want to lock myself in a cupboard and hide).

[diet_poison]

That really makes me sad. What, does his dad want him to be a jock or something? Why can't people accept their kids the way they are? :/ Also his dad sounds a bit insufferable. I would probably have reacted the same way to the sports question (I don't caaaare) and I'm glad you don't put up with shit from him.

And I'm also a nerd who hopes to find a nerdy partner... I'm glad you two have each other :3

One thing to consider if you and/or SO really want a big celebration is maybe doing a private wedding (just you or immediate family only or whatever) and later having a big reception/party where you don't have to say things in front of people but still get to celebrate and eat cake etc.?

[nightscale]

They basically view video games as 'for kids' and not something adults should do, so the way they see it he hasn't really grown up, which is silly because he's more mature than me most of the time. But he's been putting up with it for years and while I'd be a sarcastic shit-head over it he deals with his family differently so I stay out of it. I give him an ear to complain at though when he needs it.

Yeah it's nice dating a fellow nerd, we get each others habits. :3

That wouldn't be so bad tbh, it's def the actual marriage part I'd want to be very small, but a reception with everyone else could work just fine. Also be hella casual as well because I am not wearing a dress.