[ SECRET POST #3491 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3491 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [repeat]


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[A Game of Thrones, Lyanna Mormont]


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04.
[Taylor Swift]


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[Spongebob Squarepants]


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[old French politics, RPS]


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[Sherlock Holmes, "The Final Problem”]


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(Camille Bordey and Richard Poole, Death in Paradise)


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[Futurama]


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[Bill Skarsgård at Pennywise in the new remake of It]










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Comments

[sarillia]

Eight guys in eight years averages out to a year each. I don't see what's so bad about that.

[sparrow_lately]

This is what I was gonna say. Eight guys in eight years is a bit of a lot in terms of serious relationships (that shit's exhausting, y'all?!), but my best friend has had 6 bfs in the last 7.5/8 years. It's not that weird.

[(Anonymous)]

There's nothing bad about it. I wish I had that many boyfriends.

I've met people who seem to think that "dating" means being in a serious relationship and people who think if a serious relationship doesn't last, it's because someone did something bad or someone has a serious moral failing like inability to commit. I think "dating" encompasses serious relationships, but it also encompasses, you know, going on DATES with someone (and if you're famous, being seen going out a few times with the same person means people are gonna blow it out of proportion). I also know relationships can end simply because it doesn't work out and it might take a little while to figure that out. This is verging on that fundamentalist Christian nonsense about courtship and if you develop feelings for someone you don't go on to marry, then you've committed "emotional adultry" on your future spouse, so don't you dare be in a relationship that fails because that means there's something wrong with you.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know. It sounds emotionally exhausting to me, especially if the relationships don't end amicably. I'd never want that for my life.

[diet_poison]

I agree, though I don't judge people who don't seem to mind going through that process. (Hard to tell on the outside if someone else minds though.)

I've gotten a bit more skittish about dating even though I very much want to get married. Breakups are super exhausting.