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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-03 05:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #3500 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3500 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eghk9bVNN9M ]


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[Impractical Jokers (R-L): Joe, Q, Sal, Murr]


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[American Gods]


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[Pretty Little Liars]


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[Doctor Who]


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07.
[A Game of Thrones, Littlefinger/Sansa]


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08.
[Brie Larson vs. Alison Brie]














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Re: confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-08-03 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a 33 year old virgin cis woman and I'm still trying to figure out my sexuality through the fog of being utterly terrified of intimacy. Not just sexual intimacy--I don't trust anyone. Sex just adds another layer of terror. I think I'm probably bi or pan sexual and romantic, but every time I'm attracted to anyone, I immediately short circuit it by thinking they would never be attracted to me in a million years, and if they were, something must be wrong with them. The few times that I've picked up on someone being attracted to me, I've never been attracted back.

Honestly, my non-existent sex life usually bothers me less than my lack of friends (seriously, brain, you're not important enough for the whole world to be out to get you!) but my hormones are acting up today and I'm horny. Oh well, at least masturbation has never been a problem.

Re: confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-08-04 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
I could have written this word for word, except i'm older than you. It sucks and I feel like a freak most of the time, but...at least we're not the only one to struggle with this, I guess? That's some comfort, anyway.

Re: confession thread

(Anonymous) 2016-08-04 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT--yeah. Sigh. It even makes therapy a problem, since it's usually helpful to trust your therapist. And logically, I know everyone in the world can't be total bastards who will take advantage of me the moment I let my guard down, but my lizard hindbrain gives precisely zero shits about logic. Hell, my brain is an avowed pessimist even when people aren't involved. If I was an astronomer I'd spend way too much time going "oh look, an asteroid. Watcha bet it's gonna hit the earth and cause a planet wide mass extinction?" Meanwhile, a tiny wistful pissed off voice is like "hey brain, you know what would suck even more than betrayal? Dying alone."