[ SECRET POST #3503 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3503 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Avatar: The Last Airbender]


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[Overwatch]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 56 secrets from Secret Submission Post #500.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

This probably isn't what you want to hear, but... it's not that easy. It's like those guys who are all, "I shower and I'm polite to women, why can't I get a date???" as if personal hygiene and not being an obvious asshole is a huge achievement instead of being, well, the minimum standard to be considered a decent person. Those guys are overlooking the fact that they're adequate but superlative,and they get upset because they think everyone else's standards should be low enough to include them instead of realizing they need to up their game.

The "why don't I have friends" question has tons of factors, and I'm guessing there are factors you're not really delving into for whatever reason. How's your personal hygiene/appearance? Do you carry yourself in a friendly manner? Do you have interests and hobbies you're passionate about? Do you get out of the house much and make an effort to meet new people? Do you talk to other people, and when you talk, do you also listen and ask questions? Would YOU say you're an interesting person? What qualities do you think would attract other people to you? Are you responsible, i.e. are you on time and do you keep appointments and do what you say you're going to do? Are you good at keeping in touch with people? Do you initiate conversations, or do you wait until people approach you? Do you invite people to go do fun things with you?

Making friends is work. KEEPING friends is even harder work. You need to be honest with yourself about whether or not you're putting in the necessary effort, and if there's anything about your approach that needs adjusting.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

+10