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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-10 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3507 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3507 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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[Shameless (US Version)]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Movie: Mr. Right]


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[Sherlock Holmes]


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[Jacob Frye/Maxwell Roth, Assassin's Creed Syndicate]


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[Gravity Rush]











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Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-10 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a real guy's guy you know. Sports. Cars. Probably headed to the Army or Marines, if they'll have me.

I'm also gay and nobody knows. Around here you just don't see gay people like me. We have our own little boxes and the gays act this way and the straights act that way and I don't fit anywhere but I'm closest to the straight guys so that's what I pretend to be.

It fucking sucks. But I don't want to be the game changer. I don't want to be a movement. I just want to be me and I can't. It doesn't feel like 2016 here.

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-10 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry, dude. I hope you can find a way to be yourself without other people making you into a Point, whether that's through finding other folks like you or even moving away from that environment.

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-11 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, man. I hope you can feel free some day, and be exactly who you want to be.

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-11 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Fuck, man, that sounds horrible. Is there any place you could be free to be who you are?(I'd imagine the army being the worst for this.)

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-11 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know. And the worst part is I actually really WANT to join the military. I COULD join and be out now (thanks Obama) and maybe meet more people like me but it still doesn't seem like the smartest thing.

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-11 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I feel for you, man. While in matters of sexuality I'd always say be true to yourself - because it will come and bite you in the ass in the long run if you don't - I can also understand not wanting to be the movement. Maybe you'll be lucky and be situated somewhere where somebody else is already openly out, and it'll be a little bit less stigmatized... and maybe pigs have wings.

I wish there was something I could say to make it better. :(

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-11 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
I feel you, actually. I'm a pretty average girl who likes pretty average girl stuff, and I'm a total lesbian in a place that doesn't recognize lesbians as anything other than ULTRA BUTCH LUMBERJACK WOMEN

I'm out, but no one believes me.
lb_lee: Mac and Rogan canoodling with a little heart above their heads. (love)

Re: Non-fandom confessions

[personal profile] lb_lee 2016-08-11 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Good luck, dude, and you have my sympathies. I'm a gay man, but I mostly get overwhelmingly read as a lesbian. (Unless I wear a dress, and then I think some people see me as a gay man. It's weird.)

I sadly didn't get much of a choice in being a game changer. I hope you have better luck.

Re: Non-fandom confessions

(Anonymous) 2016-08-11 11:57 am (UTC)(link)
This might sound strange, but if your living in a restrictive town, the army might be a step up. There's a lot of hypermasculinity going on, but you'll also get people from all over the place with all different kinds of views.