[ SECRET POST #3507 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3507 ⌋

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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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[Shameless (US Version)]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Movie: Mr. Right]


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[Sherlock Holmes]


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[Jacob Frye/Maxwell Roth, Assassin's Creed Syndicate]


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[Gravity Rush]











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Comments

Re: How to deal with people's changed attitude towards you?

[(Anonymous)]

I can't say I've ever been in a similar situation, but I'm sorry this is happening to you. I don't know how to let go of the anger you (rightfully!) feel about it, either. Maybe in focusing on the relationships where people didn't change their attitudes toward you after the weight loss and doing a slow fade on people whose attitudes did?

I also think if your anger would allow it without a blow-up, gently confronting the people you can't slow fade on about their change might be therapeutic for you. It's likely they're not behaving consciously, not that it makes their behavior any less crappy. It won't be comfortable, pointing out their unconscious prejudices against the obese, but at least you'd feel like you did something.