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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-13 03:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #3510 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3510 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Stephen King]


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[John Green]


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[American Gods]


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[Charlie Hunnam in King Arthur: Legend of the Sword]


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[Penn & Teller: Fool Us]


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[Steven Universe]


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[Questionable Content]


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[Ghostbusters 2016]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 53 secrets from Secret Submission Post #502.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I wish I lived in a cabin or static caravan in the middle of nowhere, I'm increasingly finding it difficult to interact with people face to face. I want to just fade into the woods.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Me too anon. I just hate being around people in general. But then when I'm isolated, I get really stressed and self destructive.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm already stressed and self-destructive, I can't see it making things that much worse.
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Re: Non-fandom secrets

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-08-13 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
This was me before I got my anxiety under control.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
My doctor has suggested antidepressants both for my depression and anxiety. If you don't mind me asking, was it ADs that got your anxiety under control?
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Re: Non-fandom secrets

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-08-13 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
They definitely helped a lot. I am very happy with my medication.

It was also a shift in my thinking. I used to spend a lot of time trying to avoid being noticed and worrying about how I was coming across to other people. I did two things. I started reminding myself that people aren't all that interested in me because they're caught up in their own lives. Even if someone thinks I'm weird or something, they're going to forget about it before long, just like I do with random people I come across. The second thing is I started forcing myself to think about what exactly would happen if my fears were true. So someone notices something I did and thinks it was weird. What's the worst that will happen? They might say something. I can survive that. If I say something here that people have a problem with, they'll write nasty replies and it won't be pleasant, but it won't be devastating. Someone might take something I said the wrong way and decide I'm a bad person. Okay. Nothing I can do about that and it probably won't really affect me unless they start replying to every comment I make (and I guess we'd see how long this attitude held up if that happened). My reaction to most things that used to make me anxious is now just kind of "eh, I'll live".

I kind of rambled there but hopefully you get the idea.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
That was helpful, thanks man. I really need to get my anxiety under control. It's starting to ruin my life.
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Re: Non-fandom secrets

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-08-13 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you find some things that help. That's a rough place to be in.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I'm glad you managed to get yours under control. :)

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-13 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I know what you mean there, anon.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-08-14 01:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel you, anon. My dream home is a cabin in the woods near a stream or lake, but my need for highspeed internet and money get in the way.