[ SECRET POST #3514 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3514 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Kinks you wish you didn't have

[(Anonymous)]

I recently realized that one of my biggest kinks, something I didn't even realize I had, is something I really wish didn't turn me on as much as it does.

So for some odd reason I have this kink for sex scenes that are only about one person. Either they are being selfish and only care about getting themselves off, or their partner is totally focused on them and doesn't care about getting off (and my not even get off).

It doesn't seem to matter to me which partner is which. Just, if only one person is the focus, instant turn on for me. It makes me uncomfortable because it is something I like not just in fic, but in porn (though I wish mainstream porn were more equal opportunity about it and let it be all about the woman sometimes). And I worry that this particular kink might actually affect me in real life.

But I'm not even sure if it is possible to get rid of a kink.

Re: Kinks you wish you didn't have

[(Anonymous)]

If you're worried about this affecting your sex life, idk that it necessarily would? Not all sex has to be focused on both partners getting off. I think a lot of BDSM-type stuff can tend towards the kind of sexual encounter where only one person is really getting 'sexed up.' And since you said it doesn't matter which partner, presumably if you were dating someone it wouldn't cause much friction as long as you switched back and forth. Or, did your kinky scene and then took a little break and came back for the other person?

Re: Kinks you wish you didn't have

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I can't really think why anyone would really object to the kind of tag-team sex you're describing once you've explained it really gets you going. Tbeing able to be turned on by focusing attention only on your partner seems like a big plus for your sex life.

If you're willing to switch it up with mutual pleasure if your partner wants that, what's the issue?

Re: Kinks you wish you didn't have

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As someone who gets off on getting my partner off (it's a control thing) it's not necessarily a bad thing? Especially if you recognize it and make sure that even if your partner's needs aren't being met in THAT session, that they get met in another session that IS all about them?