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fandomsecrets2016-08-17 06:48 pm
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Re: When to say something or not?
(Anonymous) 2016-08-17 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)Maybe you can talk to whoever heads the program, and they can take care of it? Or is that person you, or is there not really any head? I do think someone should still talk to him - it just may take explaining why that's not funny. I have a friend with a disability who has never made offensive jokes, but she's laughed at them without understanding that they're offensive. So it's possible he heard someone else make the joke and doesn't realize that it can be hurtful.
However, not to be blunt, but people with disabilities can have prejudices. And if you think it's only a minor disability, it's possible he knows that behavior is wrong, but just lacks the tact to choose when to show it. So that makes it tough.