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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-17 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #3514 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3514 ⌋

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Re: Online Dating

[personal profile] aenrhien 2016-08-18 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
I was on both OKCupid and Grindr for a while.

OKC was... odd, even by what I hear are online dating standards, because most of my messages were from women even though I clearly specified that I'm a man seeking men exclusively. Most of them were just looking for friends and were really cool, but it's still like, how do these people find me when I shouldn't be showing up in their matches at all? I also got a message from a straight man who kept pestering me to take pictures for him in girl clothes, because I'm too pretty to be a boy. Ended up having to block that one.

Grindr was actually much less weird, because I went into that knowing all I was likely to get out of it was a hookup. I saw more cocks in twenty minutes than I had in many years leading up to that decision, ended up talking to yet another straight guy who thought I'd be prettier in girl clothes. Met a couple very nice guys through there and talked to them for a bit, but it fizzled out with all of them. Ended up uninstalling the app.


My advice is aimed pretty exclusively at MLM, so unsure how useful it'd be to F!S as a whole, but I hope you're comfortable in girl clothes, because people are going to want pictures of you in them and will be furious if you don't want to do it.