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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-22 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3519 ]


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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2016-08-23 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, I dunno. It's like saying someone isn't asexual just because they're not repulsed by sex with someone they really care about, they're not suddenly capable of sexual attraction in general just because they're not disgusted by sex with a very specific person. So it doesn't feel quite right to me to say someone who looks at virtually every member of a gender and their libido still goes "ew no thanks" is into that gender.

(Anonymous) 2016-08-23 11:14 am (UTC)(link)
I'm guessing this is where "demisexual" comes from - giving a name to that particular exception to asexuality.

And yep, I agree on the bisexuality thing. There's a difference between a guy going "I love both men and women" (bisexual) or "I love you, I don't care if you're a man" (straight with an exception).

Given how fluid sexuality is though, I'd love to live in a world where labels aren't needed and you just love who you love. (But I also recognize that in our current world, labels are needed still.)
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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2016-08-23 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
There's a difference between a guy going "I love both men and women" (bisexual) or "I love you, I don't care if you're a man" (straight with an exception).

That's a nicely concise way to put it. And yeah, if one day people can just chill with or not chill with any consenting adult without being pushed to explain why, it'd be fantastic.