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⌈ Secret Post #3521 ⌋

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[World of Warcraft: Legion]

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(Fallout 4)

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[Doctor Who - 12/Clara]

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(The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy)

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[Bojack Horseman]

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[Criminal Minds]

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[Elite: Dangerous]

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[Street Fighter]

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Yes you are. Block her and hope to god she gets help, but have nothing to do with her ever again if you can.

I had a similar "friend" once, except minus the "she needs me exactly when I'm about to go do something that I've mentioned to her" part, which is creepy. I felt really guilty about it and I hated to cut her off, but the fact is, I was being driven mad by her problems, and by letting her tell me I was the only reason she was still alive. Even if that had been true, it's not my responsibility. I don't owe her my presence just because it benefits her, not if it hurts me (and I was getting so anxious over her that at one point I was barely eating, which is huge for me because I love food more than life itself), and I can't help her, nor is it my job.

You'll feel bad. Find a therapist or something of your own, if you don't already have one, because you're probably gonna need to work through this. You'll feel guilty, like you did the wrong thing by not sacrificing yourself for her -- but if you don't cut her off, that's all you're ever going to do. If she actually does kill herself once you're gone (unlikely, from what I know about psychology), that's not your fault, that is mental illness, which you had no part in causing and could only temporarily ease, but never would have fixed.

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Re: I think I'm being manipulated. (TW talk of suicide)

SA, because I feel like I was too blunt

Re: I think I'm being manipulated. (TW talk of suicide)