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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-24 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3521 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3521 ⌋

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[World of Warcraft: Legion]


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(Fallout 4)


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[Doctor Who - 12/Clara]


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(The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy)


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[Bojack Horseman]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Elite: Dangerous]


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[Street Fighter]












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Re: I think I'm being manipulated. (TW talk of suicide)

(Anonymous) 2016-08-25 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
Manipulated? Yes.

If this is breaking you down, you have to take care of yourself. She's too busy being a hot mess to care about how her crap affects you.

Tell her to talk to a therapist if you can't talk.

Call the police in her area (if you know it) if she threatens suicide. Tell her you are calling the police (even if you aren't able to).

Stop cancelling your stuff for her. Don't take responsibility for her. You are not her therapist. You are not her savior. You are not her mom, her sister, her guardian, or case worker.

I guess it's possible she could kill herself. But quite frankly, you've done all that you can and then some. You can advise her on what to do but she can't be helped unless she's willing. And realistically, there's only so much people on the internet can do for someone else. You should not be held hostage to her whims (or threats?). When someone's mental illness starts making you ill, then it's time to cut back or cut them out.