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fandomsecrets2016-08-24 06:43 pm
[ SECRET POST #3521 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3521 ⌋
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[World of Warcraft: Legion]
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(Fallout 4)
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[Doctor Who - 12/Clara]
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(The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy)
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[Bojack Horseman]
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[Criminal Minds]
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[Elite: Dangerous]
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[Street Fighter]
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Re: I think I'm being manipulated. (TW talk of suicide)
(Anonymous) 2016-08-25 03:53 am (UTC)(link)Tell her that you can't keep doing this anymore, because obviously whatever you do isn't helping and she needs to get professional help. Cut off contact immediately after so she can't guilt-trip you into staying.
What she's doing is manipulative, and if she's really sick, hopefully she'll get actual help. Even if you stayed, things would only escalate for the worse: you'll get burnt out, she doesn't get help. Obviously, it's not a sustainable situation for either of you.
But whatever happens, NONE OF IT IS ON YOU. You're not responsible for someone else's life unless you're their parent.
This is a common technique in emotionally abusive relationships where the abuser threatens to kill themselves if they can't monopolize their target's time. Please cut off all contact ASAP while you still can.