[ SECRET POST #3529 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3529 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Luther]


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[Orlando Bloom, Elijah Wood, Dominic Monaghan, Billy Boyd, Sean Astin]


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04.
[Supernatural]


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05.
[Ane Brun- "Do You Remember" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lI30Qw69AQ)]


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06.
[The Pillars of the Earth miniseries]


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07.
[Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries]
















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Comments

Re: Ugh thread

[(Anonymous)]

Heartbroken anon here. I still feel like shit. He told me he agreed we needed to talk and he would let me know when he could, and then proceeded to ignore me for 2 weeks. I'm pretty sure he's never going to talk to me again, and that honestly hurts more than the breakup did - it makes me feel like I never meant anything to him at all.

Re: Ugh thread

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think I saw your earlier post, but I'm sorry, anon. If it helps, I don't think it's a case of you not meaning anything to him at all, it's more likely a case of cowardice and him avoiding confrontation. A lot of people are like that - given the chance, they'd prefer to pretend a problem never existed rather than face it head on.

Now I don't know your circumstances, but surely you feel you deserve better than someone who'd rather let you suffer and wonder what went wrong after he agreed to talk about it. It's a cliche, but you're better off without him. Don't look to him for closure, look to people who love and care about you to support you in the aftermath and give yourself time to heal.

Re: Ugh thread

[diet_poison]

This is a great comment.

Re: Ugh thread

[(Anonymous)]

*offers sympathy*

This is far more cynical than the other anon's hypothesis, but. It's possible (maybe not likely, but possible) that he's agreed to talk but not follow through because he wants to keep you emotionally invested :/

Either way, can't hurt to take the time to reacquaint yourself with yourself, get to know who you are away from the lens of a relationship? Do all the things you wanted to do while dating him but couldn't, etc
Amongst other things, it'll help pass the time until you hear back. Plus the possibility of you having a better idea of what you actually want from a relationship (and if it's something you can get with him at all).

(I can't remember your older posts, but this post makes it sound like you're wanting/hoping to get back together with him.)

Re: Ugh thread

[diet_poison]

I'm so sorry. I know that feeling. It hurts so much it makes me feel sick. :(

You deserve so much better. Hang in there. It's hard to accept that he probably won't talk to you again, but it's probably best at this point to start investing your emotional energy elsewhere. You'll get through it.

Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk more (if you have an account or are comfortable with making an account or a sock). ♥