[ SECRET POST #3533 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3533 ⌋

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Comments

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[herpymcderp]

I'm not practicing.

I could practice tomorrow if I decided to. I do NOT want to.

But that's totally beside the point since I didn't tell OP they should absolutely go start reading fiction. What I did say was that it is an avenue a lot of people use, that they might also find useful if they were to consider the breadth of available material.

Yep. What a terrible comment.

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[diet_poison]

Sounds like you are depriving yourself of a way to potentially heal a little bit, OP.

That sounds pretty definitive to me. It sounds like you are casting a lot of judgment without really knowing the situation at all.

I'd be really pissed if I were in OP's shoes and some stranger made a comment like that to me - doubly so if it were a dude.

So do you have some kind of license?

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[herpymcderp]

doubly so if it were a dude

Some day I'm going to just start posting some of my comments anonymously. Just a few. Just to see difference.

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[diet_poison]

So you think you should have as much right to comment on women's experiences as someone who can actually somewhat relate to them, when it comes to something so highly sensitive and difficult?

Ok, maybe if you were one of the very few trans dudes who actually wanted to get pregnant, that would be different, but unless I've missed something, you're not trans.

So yeah, it would make a difference if you were anon - it would still sound really presumptuous, but without the added baggage of 1. coming from a man and 2. coming from someone who has a history of being very self-important and presumptuous.

ETA: still haven't answered my question about a license

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[ariakas]

I could practice tomorrow if I decided to. I do NOT want to

Come on dude, no you couldn't. Registered psychologists require a doctoral degree and supervised practica in BC and assistants require a master's (http://www.collegeofpsychologists.bc.ca/rrp.php#registration). You're years away from being able to. I'm not giving away your job details or anything but that's just a straight up lie.

Not even that you're necessarily wrong or your advice is bad, but faking credentials is wack.

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[(Anonymous)]

Called out by the girlfriend. How delicious.

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[ariakas]

I'm not "calling him out" in that I don't think he's even wrong about this, and he's highly educated about psychology, but impersonating someone with specific credentials is seriously not cool.

Though I guess he hasn't answered the "do you have a license" question directly, the "I could practice tomorrow" was kiiiiinda close enough. And the answer is no. No he doesn't.