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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-05 05:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #3533 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3533 ⌋

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-09-06 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like you are depriving yourself of a way to potentially heal a little bit, OP.

That sounds pretty definitive to me. It sounds like you are casting a lot of judgment without really knowing the situation at all.

I'd be really pissed if I were in OP's shoes and some stranger made a comment like that to me - doubly so if it were a dude.

So do you have some kind of license?

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[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-09-06 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
doubly so if it were a dude

Some day I'm going to just start posting some of my comments anonymously. Just a few. Just to see difference.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-09-06 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
So you think you should have as much right to comment on women's experiences as someone who can actually somewhat relate to them, when it comes to something so highly sensitive and difficult?

Ok, maybe if you were one of the very few trans dudes who actually wanted to get pregnant, that would be different, but unless I've missed something, you're not trans.

So yeah, it would make a difference if you were anon - it would still sound really presumptuous, but without the added baggage of 1. coming from a man and 2. coming from someone who has a history of being very self-important and presumptuous.

ETA: still haven't answered my question about a license
Edited 2016-09-06 01:07 (UTC)