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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-12 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3540 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3540 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Tom Hanks & Aaron Eckhart in Sully]


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03.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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04.
[The Hobbit (film)]


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05.
[Keeping Up Appearances]


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06.
[Endeavour]


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07.
[Legend, Lily/Darkness]


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08.
[Anne of Green Gables remake]


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09.
[Macross Delta]













Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: People who are still in contact with abusive family members, why?

(Anonymous) 2016-09-12 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Because you grow up believing the abuse is normal. Even when outsiders say it's not, how do you go about looking at it differently when it's all you've ever known? Sure, you can try to look at it from an objective, rational point of view, but there's still a part of you that goes "yes, this is part of my world, this is normal".

Imagine your favorite color is red, and then someone comes along and says that the red color you've been looking at is actually blue.