[ SECRET POST #463 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #463 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 19 pages, 459 secrets from Secret Submission Post #066.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 2 3 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

SRS COMMENT IS SRS

[dorknessrising.livejournal.com]

30. You are full of far more fail than any anime or manga will ever cure, and your kind of attitude burns me up like crazy.

That flaw is surmountable. You may need other people to help you and it will be very difficult to seek that help if you truly "hate people" -- which I think you fear rather than hate, but I'll save my SAD/APD vs, ASPD rant for another day -- but you can overcome it if you want to badly enough.

Friends don't just fall into your lap. You have to meet them at least halfway. As long as you accept that your avoidance is a hurdle you can't leap, you will always be alone.

Re: SRS COMMENT IS SRS

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

I am gonna have to seriously agree. Unless this person has a genuine Axis I/II personality disorder, she can overcome her shit.

When are people going to get over their entitlement complexes regarding relationships? Christ.

Re: SRS COMMENT IS SRS

[dorknessrising.livejournal.com]

I was borderline APD about three years ago, and had been socially anxious most of my life. There are still things I have trouble doing, such as carrying on a phone conversation, and when I'm stressed out, the first thing I do to calm down is limit my direct interaction with people because it's one of the few sources of stress I can voluntarily cut.

But it's not impossible to manage. I'm fairly functional, I have more friends now, both on and offline than I ever thought I could, and I have a girlfriend. Most of that is due to making the effort on my part to stay in touch with people, and be confident that I won't screw things up just by existing.

It's no picnic, but it can be done. Believing you can't overcome it is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Re: SRS COMMENT IS SRS

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

Oh man, for a second I read that as "Borderline Personality Disorder" and was like GJDSHGSDHFS but I gotcha. When I say personality disorders, I mean the really bad shit that you actually can't be cured of like that one.

I'm glad at least some people like yourself have the strength (and even bother at all) to attempt to conquer their problems. I have a whole lot of physical issues myself, and it sucks, but humans are strong and built to overcome adversity.

People like the OP just piss me off.

Re: SRS COMMENT IS SRS

[dorknessrising.livejournal.com]

Oh dear XD As one of my friends put it, "Avoidant Personality Disorder is Social Anxiety's cousin with the nose-ring and tattoos."

That attitude drives me batty, because at its core is a fatalist resignation that "there's nothing I can do, this is just the way I am and other people have to accept me." Which burns me up because it's a selfish, hindering, and grossly entitled way of looking at things.

Re: SRS COMMENT IS SRS

[dietotaku.livejournal.com]

axis 1 - treatable disorders
axis 2 - personality disorders

PSYCHOLOGY NERD OUT

[(Anonymous)]

You probably could have phrased that a bit nicer too. You could be talking to a younger fan.

[dorknessrising.livejournal.com]

How much younger are we talking about? Secret says the OP accepted they stopped watching anime 10 years ago. Unless we're breeding otaku in preschool, I doubt s/he's young enough to not know better.

[(Anonymous)]

Good point. Still... I hope the person tries what you said, rather than feeling attacked.