[ SECRET POST #3543 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3543 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[annethecatdetective]

If a general porn blog follows me-- or one that's tailored to an off the wall niche that has nothing to do with what I blog about-- I assume a bot runs it and they made a mistake or latched onto something I tagged 'nsfw'. I certainly don't clutch my pearls over the fact that porn blogs are out there, doing their thing and providing a service of sorts for the people who want it.

I do get INCREDIBLY skeeved out when BBW porn blogs follow me, though, because I don't want my completely non-sexual selfies used as wank fodder by strangers, I don't want to have to feel like I need to police my words when I make ordinary blog posts about my relationship with my body or talking about what I ate at any given time because maybe a fat woman talking about food is enough for some stranger to get his jollies from, and I don't think that's prudish or unusual of me. If you run a porn blog and you just also want to follow blogs that are interesting to you, that's fine, though you shouldn't be surprised if people get creeped out/block you. It's a super asshole move to follow people just to get a rise out of them, though. Some of them are bound to be underage, for one thing.

Also it's really creepy to feel like you are being sexualized against your will by strangers. It's creepy when men do it out on the street, it's creepy when someone running a porn blog does it to you on tumblr. Porn blogs don't need to follow random people who are just trying to live their (online) life. You follow other porn blogs, or... I dunno, blogs that mostly post porny stuff even if they aren't strictly a porn blog, I imagine they wouldn't be creeped out by it so much.