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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-16 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #3544 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3544 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[The Neverending Story]



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02.
[Hamilton/Pokémon Go]


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03.
[Peter Pan, Hook/Tiger Lily]


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04.
["The Strain", Richard Sammel and Ruta Gedmintas]


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05.
[Jessica Jones]


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08. [SPOILERS for Great British Bake Off]



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09. [SPOILERS for World of Warcraft: Legion]




















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 47 secrets from Secret Submission Post #506.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - this style of trolling is just too obvious, come on ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Advice- TW for Suicide

(Anonymous) 2016-09-17 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
I know this sounds cold, but there isn't much you can do or say if your friend refuses to get help. If you're up for it, check in with them and be a shoulder to cry on, but keep encouraging them to talk to a doctor or at least try one of those suicide hotlines. IIRC, there are anonymous online chats they can use, too.

Your idea of a gift is sweet, but keep in mind that you cannot love someone out of depression. Don't spend money you can't afford. Don't invest time you can't afford, and by this I mean if you find yourself in the position of needing to talk them down from the ledge over and over again, this is a bad sign. Again, I know this sounds cold, because of course you want to help your friend. But trust me, you CANNOT be your friend's only safety line. You're not equipped to do be their sole source of emotional support, and it wouldn't be fair to you OR your friend.