[ SECRET POST #3549 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3549 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Fire Emblem Fates]


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[Stellan Skarsgård in River]


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[Labyrinth]


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[Mr. Clarke from Stranger Things]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Star Trek]
















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Comments

Re: Social pet peeves

[shortysc22]

Her response back was incredibly rude too!

It's why I've lost a few friends, I'll reach out only so many times but when you don't respond, I give up after several tries. I don't have the time/energy to constantly be the one to contact you.

That last bit takes the cake. Is she whining on facbeook and looking for attention? Because I know people like that too.

Re: Social pet peeves

[(Anonymous)]

On twitter, but yeah, it's pretty annoying. See I'm not great at keeping in contact either, but I understand that if I want to keep friends - especially those not living near so you can't occasionally meet up on a whim- I need to communicate with them. I'm definitely not someone who does the whole "I contacted you the last time so it's your turn to contact me" but you can't just pin all the "starting up a conversation" on the other person all the time. Now this friend, she is the kind of person who will whine on twitter several tweets at a time how lonely she is, how much people distance themselves from her and how nobody every talks to her. Yet she very, very rarely initiates contact. The most infuriating thing is that she is completely aware of it, but doesn't change her behaviour.

I actually do suspect that her whining is partly trying to guilt trip people into contacting her again. But really, if she spent the time simply writing a message to one of her friends instead of putting out 20-30 whine tweets, her situation would be improving already...

Re: Social pet peeves

[shortysc22]

I'm not about the whole well I contacted you last time, now it's your turn, I'm talking about friends where you will contact them and they say they are busy, so you ask them when they are free and they say they'll contact you. You do this same thing 3 or 4 times before deciding it's too much.

Or one friend will always agree to hang out but when it's always me asking her, after doing this for over a year, it's frustrating to always be the friend to make plans.

She's a friend I would have lost by now and unfollowed because I don't put up with that.