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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-23 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3551 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3551 ⌋

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08. [WARNING for mentions/discussion of abuse, rape, pedophilia, etc]

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(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
that's a prudent call.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
+1, tbh

(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm never sure if I should feel weird about my futanari kink or not. In my case, I'm imagining myself in the role of the girl with the penis. But I still wonder if it is an okay kink to have or if I'm being transphobic.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
There are so many creeps.

So many.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
i think it'd be pretty safe to say if you like fantasy succubi with penises or like hermaphroditic aliens or something. far enough removed from any real world stuff so it counts as xeno. which a whole lot of that type of stuff already does

thats a very very different thing from chasing 'trannys' and other awful stuff like that

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
tbh it's a common kink. so many fandoms use trans headcanons that way.

you should look into homestuck troll centric fic, OP. if you're ok with tentacles most ppl headcanon them with both.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Probably best not to mention it to them. I mean then you have to explain why you felt it was important that they know this about you and try to figure out if you're creepily hitting on them.

But I don't think just liking it is bad. For me part of the fantasy is no one thinking it weird that a girl is entirely a girl and has never been treated as anything but a girl, she just naturally has a penis, and vice versa. No different from being born with blue eyes.

Trans characters I don't really want transness to be the h in someone h/c fantasy with the character.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
i dont think 'mention it to them' means going up to someone and going so hay there what about them futanari, more like they can't post about it to their tumblr or something.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Kinda vague though. If it's something they're feeling guilty about they might be wanting to go ahead and confess.

But trans people are, well, people, and there's no way for strangers to read tea leaves and figure out if their response is going to be "Cool, I love it too." to "Eww, you're awful and should be ashamed" to anywhere inbetween

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I like cuntboy stuff bc I prefer vaginas to penises, but, unfortunately, it's a lot more rare than futa. I have found a couple good doujins, though.

But yeah, I would never tell my trans friends that I'm into this lol.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit wait what, what cuntboy doujins? Do you mind sharing a link or something? T___T I've found like...2, total. I neeeeeeeeed more.
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-09-24 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT, but the only one I've ever seen is for Tiger and Bunny: http://g.e-hentai.org/g/735398/39786e32df/

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty much in the same boat, anon. For me though futa is a way for me to pretend that kind of thing is possible for myself. I consider myself a cis female, but ever since I was six years old I've wished I had a penis. I'm perfectly fine with the rest of my female anatomy, which is why I don't consider myself trans, but that one part has always felt like it was "missing" for me. So while I'll never admit to my friends I like futa, that's the reason I am into it.

(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
So, here's the thing: trans people def don't have monolithic reactions to this stuff. Obviously, right? Like, for some people it's super uncomfortable. And for some people it's actually really affirming, because being sexually objectified like that (or, having anatomy similar to yours albeit of a fantasy porn distorted flavor, so objectified) means that you are sexually desirable to some people and not, say, forever a mismatched grotesque freak. Which is a feeling some people struggle with!

But you don't just wanna, like, guess, when you could hurt them and/or your friendship. Obviously.

So the first thing you should ask yourself is, why do you want to be able to talk to them about it? Because you want them to exonerate you from committing Bad Kinks? Don't make them do that kind of intimate emotional labor for you. Accept that you like what you like and you're not hurting anyone, and keep your private kinks private. Or are they they kind of friends you talk about other sexy/kinky stuff with on the regular, and you feel like you're lying to them, or don't like holding back? Well, then maybe say you came across some and ask how they feel about it. If it's not out of left field for you guys to discuss sexual things, you can get a bead on their reactions without jumping straight to 'I think this is hot, and it doesn't mean I don't still see you as a person, and it does mean I'm interested in your reactions bc you've got a unique perspective here, and you know me well enough to assume I'm acting in good faith even if I bumbled something here.'

It depends on what kinds of friends you are and what kinds of people and your comfort levels. If you wouldn't talk to them about other kinks, don't talk about this one with either. But if you would, you know, maybe you'd learn things from starting a discussion.

(But probably publicly on tumblr would be a real bad place to have that discussion. Tumblr is super bad at nuance and also at keeping audiences restricted to people who understand each other's context and comfort levels etc.)