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fandomsecrets2016-09-23 07:15 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #3551 ⌋
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[YuGiOh! The Abridged Series, Little Kuriboh]
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)So many.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-23 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)thats a very very different thing from chasing 'trannys' and other awful stuff like that
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 12:31 am (UTC)(link)you should look into homestuck troll centric fic, OP. if you're ok with tentacles most ppl headcanon them with both.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 12:53 am (UTC)(link)But I don't think just liking it is bad. For me part of the fantasy is no one thinking it weird that a girl is entirely a girl and has never been treated as anything but a girl, she just naturally has a penis, and vice versa. No different from being born with blue eyes.
Trans characters I don't really want transness to be the h in someone h/c fantasy with the character.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)But trans people are, well, people, and there's no way for strangers to read tea leaves and figure out if their response is going to be "Cool, I love it too." to "Eww, you're awful and should be ashamed" to anywhere inbetween
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 01:38 am (UTC)(link)But yeah, I would never tell my trans friends that I'm into this lol.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 05:35 am (UTC)(link)But you don't just wanna, like, guess, when you could hurt them and/or your friendship. Obviously.
So the first thing you should ask yourself is, why do you want to be able to talk to them about it? Because you want them to exonerate you from committing Bad Kinks? Don't make them do that kind of intimate emotional labor for you. Accept that you like what you like and you're not hurting anyone, and keep your private kinks private. Or are they they kind of friends you talk about other sexy/kinky stuff with on the regular, and you feel like you're lying to them, or don't like holding back? Well, then maybe say you came across some and ask how they feel about it. If it's not out of left field for you guys to discuss sexual things, you can get a bead on their reactions without jumping straight to 'I think this is hot, and it doesn't mean I don't still see you as a person, and it does mean I'm interested in your reactions bc you've got a unique perspective here, and you know me well enough to assume I'm acting in good faith even if I bumbled something here.'
It depends on what kinds of friends you are and what kinds of people and your comfort levels. If you wouldn't talk to them about other kinks, don't talk about this one with either. But if you would, you know, maybe you'd learn things from starting a discussion.
(But probably publicly on tumblr would be a real bad place to have that discussion. Tumblr is super bad at nuance and also at keeping audiences restricted to people who understand each other's context and comfort levels etc.)