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fandomsecrets2016-09-23 07:15 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #3551 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 07:40 am (UTC)(link)Pedophilia is a medical condition where a perosn is attracted to someone with underdeveloped secondary sex characteristics. Few 13 year olds have bodies similar to that of fully developed adults, so a 35 year old, or even a 20 year old attracted to such underdeveloped child is absolutely a textbook pedophile.
Of course I wouldn't consider it pedophilia if someone saw an unusually developed 13 year old and felt attracted to them, but I absolutely would expect an adult to have enough maturity and responsibility to not pursue a relationship knowing the child's actual age. I could understand a relationship with a 17 year old, or even a 16 year old with above-average maturity, but no 13 year old is so mature that it would make a relationship with an adult an equal partnership.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:29 am (UTC)(link)From personal experience (I was not actually abused) I was a tall, busty 10-year-old. I experienced a lot of street harassment. Most older guys backed off as soon as I said my age but there were always some who got vastly more interested.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-25 11:27 am (UTC)(link)Would you consider it pedophilia is a person was attracted to someone their own age, or even older, with no medical condition impairing their mental reasoning, but with a sweet and innocent personality of a child? I wouldn't.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-25 11:22 am (UTC)(link)And yes, if I met a guy who purposefully seeks out and dates women who look like pre-pubescent children and actively tried to convince them to not try to make themselves look their age via make-up or clothes, I would be careful around that guy. Though I'd have been happy that a person with clearly pedophilic tendencies is choosing to act them out with someone capable of consenting to this.