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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-10-02 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3560 ⌋

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Re: Is this really a thing?

(Anonymous) 2016-10-03 07:03 am (UTC)(link)
Eh. It's not, like, some kind of unbreakable code of honor or anything like that. But I do think there's something to the idea that you should like... have your friends' backs? And back them up and have their side, to a certain extent? If someone is rude to a friend of yours, or does them wrong somehow, that should impinge on you, you know?

Again, that doesn't mean you have to go to extremes and swear eternal vendetta. It's a limited thing.
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Re: Is this really a thing?

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2016-10-03 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
That makes sense, yeah.

As I mentioned above I have experience with two friends who had a personality clash and would give as good as they got between each other. And friend arguments where both people HAD a side to some degree.

So I guess my experience comes from knowing that both people have a side and feel wronged, making it hard to be on one side or the other. Also I was in that position before when I was growing up. My sister and I would have bouts where we swore we hated each other and my cousin never took sides and just told us both to get our shit together, lol.

Looking back we also both said shit to each other so I couldn't blame someone for not taking one side.