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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-10-02 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3560 ⌋

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caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Is this really a thing?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2016-10-03 07:03 am (UTC)(link)
I hope not. Generally I go with "the first friend who demands I choose between them and another is the first one to go". By all means tell me if you think they're dodgy or why you're annoyed and why but I can't stand bad mouthing and I can't stand ppl telling or expecting me to side with one person over another.

Like. I'm not going to dislike someone just because a friend does. I ain't intentionally be chummy but if we get along and I want to get to know them, so be it.

Just urgh. I used to have a friend like that. Was always super judgie over ppl I was seeing or new friends. Stopped introducing them to ppl so I didn't have to hear them bad mouthing. Should have been my clue to cut them off sooner.
dani_phantasma: (Kittens)

Re: Is this really a thing?

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2016-10-03 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah me too.

I've learned through experience that a lot of times two parties have a side, excluding cases of abuse and bullying of course.

Among my friends group I would talk to a lot of people and end up getting all sides of the story.

Eeek that sounds horrible.