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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-10-02 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3560 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3560 ⌋

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Re: Is this really a thing?

(Anonymous) 2016-10-03 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
For me it really depends on WHY they hate the other person. If it's just personality clash that's one thing, but stuff like physical abuse, sexual abuse, serious theft, to me you're kind of an awful friend if you're ok with that happening to your friends as long as the person doing it is likable. And I wouldn't consider that a girl-code thing, just a decent human being thing.

I say that as someone who's 'friends' watched them get beaten bloody and a finger broken by someone much larger and stronger and then couldn't understand why I was making things sooooo difficult by requesting to know if that person was going to be at group things so I could just not go.

But yeah if it's just general personality conflict, no, the whole "all my friends must be friends" thing is not right. It's also known as Geek Social Fallacy #4: Friendship Is Transitive

Re: Is this really a thing?

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2016-10-03 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah the latter is an obvious exception.

Wow geez that's horrible. o.o I'm sorry.