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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-11-01 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3590 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3590 ⌋

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I get you

(Anonymous) 2016-11-01 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm the kind of person who doesn't mentally consider someone a "friend" unless I really mean it (like I genuinely trust that I can confide in them and rely on them and stuff). I usually verbally refer to close acquaintances as "friends" for simplicity's sake.

I'm almost 20, but I'm still in touch with nearly all of my people in my high school group of friends, whether or not that continues is yet to be determined, but we get together when we're out of school and occasionally chat in a group chat to stay updated on each other's lives.

I'm still in contact with one of my best friends from elementary school. We only are able to get together only once or twice a year, but we've really stuck together for several reasons, including the fact we have very similar (and actually fairly traumatic) backgrounds and she's probably the only person I would be willing to tell basically anything.

In college, I've managed to find another group of "friends" (at this point they're straddling the line between close acquaintances and friends, I'm just not 100% with sharing sensitive things about my life yet) that I really enjoy hanging out with. This group also has a weirdly (as in I've never quite personally experienced a group of friends like this before) familial tone. Like the "leader" is the epitome of "the dad friend" and basically all the guys in it are starting to become something like brothers to me (*Koda voice* "I always wanted a brother"). I'm not sure if this group will ever attain "True Companions" status though, but that would be nice.

Something I've never really had is a serious, close two-person friendship, but I guess a future spouse could always fill that role someday.