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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-11-01 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3590 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3590 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-11-03 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't despair of never finding a friendship like this. It takes work, and time. My best friend in medical school and I have a relationship where we can literally tell each other everything (there is no such thing as TMI between us), and I know that she would never judge me, and vice versa. That didn't develop overnight, but when you've gone through the trenches so to speak (either literally, or in reference to days and days of clinical work and studying), you can develop really close bonds.

And then there is my best friend from high school, who is still my best friend now at age 27. So we've been friends for 10 years, and we have definitely not always been this close. We had a friend group where we were each closer to someone else, but then over time we sort of drifted together and now I swear she knows me better than I know myself.

She's the friend whom I called first when I got dumped via email on Christmas Eve. I was devastated. She literally started crying on the phone when I told her, and her fiance standing beside her was worried somebody had died because she was so upset. She then drove immediately to my place on Christmas Eve, stopping only to pick up Menchie's frozen yogurt and nonalcoholic wine (because I don't drink).

True best friends exist. You have to open yourself up and be vulnerable. You also have to find the right person, which can take time. But I promise they exist!