[ SECRET POST #3611 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #3611 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mass Effect]


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03.
[Once Upon a Time]


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04.
(Overwatch, John McCain)


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[Arrow]


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[Carrie Fisher, Harrison Ford]


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[Supergirl]


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[The Graham Norton Show]








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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I admit my second comment was a bit harsh, and I had written an apology for that part, saying that I had also overreacted (it couldn't post because the thread was frozen) and I could understand that one being frozen, but how was the first comment "unnecessary garbage" that needed to be frozen? I have seen way worse not be frozen before. I'm not trying to incite anything, but am genuinely curious for in the future.

[(Anonymous)]

Because, you can't know every aspect of someone's situation. Sometimes people have their own personal reasons why they're living with their parents. And even if someone chooses to live with their parents, they don't HAVE to put up with emotionally abusive treatment, parents condescending their problems, or dismissing them or calling their anxiety "overreacting". That's bullshit. Ableist bullshit.

Your comment was unneeded and honestly rather cruel. If you find irony in their rant, keep it to your fucking self.

[(Anonymous)]

DA -- While I agree with most of this comment, if you are an adult who chooses to live with your emotionally abusive parents when you have the option to do otherwise, then yeah, you actually do have to put up with their emotionally abusive bullshit. "I'm living with you forever of my own volition, now change your personality to suit me" is both entitled as fuck and just plain stupid. They are never going to change. You either need to learn to deal with it or decide you're not dealing with it anymore and leave.

[case]

I don't think it's "unnecessary garbage" per se but please try not to go into threads marked for venting and attack people personally with things you assume about their situation? If it were someone asking for advice and you meant it as tough advice, yeah, maybe, but it wasn't.

Would you like to post the rest? I just didn't want it to continue in that direction.

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

Can I ask why you decided to freeze Philstar's original post? It seemed a little punitive.

[case]

Mostly because there was no way for me to know anon's intent and if I'd left it open they might reply again with more of the same.

Since they've since clarified I've unfrozen it again.

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT
I didn't think I assumed anything with the first comment, as I was just saying that saying a list was asked for and considered helpful according to the comment, but then getting "pissed off" at having "overreacting" being on there could be seen as overreacting. Which is why I didn't think that comment was bad, as it was just going off the lines in the comment. But I can see your point about it being in a venting thread, and I'll continue to ignore as I usually do. And try to think more about context in the future. Thanks for the reaponse.

I'd be willing to post the apology for overreacting with the second comment, as I really did overreact due to a lot of shitty things going on right now, and if I could have deleted it while being anon, I would have. But I'm also okay with this serving as a basic apology for overreacting and posting the second comment if you don't want to open it up for that. I will abide by your judgment on it as you are generally good with that. Again, thanks for the response.

[case]

I've unfrozen it again so go ahead and post if you like. Seems like it's a bad day for lots of people today - sorry for assuming the worst of you and thanks to you too for taking the time to clarify!

[(Anonymous)]

I posted the apology. I feel really bad that I snapped. As I have now apologized, I don't know if you want to freeze that second comment, as that one really was over the line. I am okay with whatever you decide, as I trust your judgment. Thanks for letting me post the apology, and again, sorry for snapping! I really should know by now to take a break when someone says something like fuck off to me inseam of snapping back. I will try to be better in the future.