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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-12-04 03:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3623 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3623 ⌋

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Re: How do you buy your sex toys/porn/whatever

(Anonymous) 2016-12-05 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
That's really only an issue if you live in such a small community that your mail carrier or a person at your bank who has access to your records knows you personally, and that's assuming they would even look/pay attention. Also, if it's a package delivery service that delivers the sex toy and not the local mail carrier, then you might have a delivery driver who lives far away and doesn't know you.

My primary credit card is through a credit union based in a big city where I haven't lived in about 15 years. Everything is run by computer and human eyes are not going to comb through my credit card expenses line by line unless there is a problem/reason to do so, because there must be thousands of credit accounts at that credit union. Even if someone did go back over my expenses, they don't know me. I am just a name and billing address.

If anyone tried to cause trouble for me for buying a dildo, I'd report them and they'd get fired. Meanwhile, I would have done nothing illegal, would not get arrested or put on a sex offender registry, I would not lose my job (my boss would laugh her ass off), I would not lose my apartment (my landlady wouldn't care and neither would my neighbors in my building - two other single women and a young couple), and while my parents would be like "WE REALLY DIDN'T NEED TO KNOW" they won't be shunned by their friends or too ashamed to leave the house.