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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-12-21 04:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3640 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3640 ⌋

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Re: Unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2016-12-22 07:43 am (UTC)(link)
I could not physically wrestle my tantruming 3 year old somewhere she doesn't want to go without physically hurting her or myself. What does work when they're a bundle of strange emotions and feelings they haven't yet learned the tools to process is either ignore or distract until they're calm. That's a lot easier to do without people passing judgement on you or feeding the tantrum by passing comment (and therefore reinforcing negative attention)

Like the older lady who decided to tell my child who was screaming about going into the pushchair as we were leaving the doctors that 'someone needed to learn how to behave better for mummy'. Err no , she's beautifully behaved normally but after being made to wait 40 minutes for our appointment with minimal entertainment as I wasn't expecting more than a 10 min wait, she'd quite understandably had enough. Also the clue is we were at the doctors, maybe she was I don't know, unwell? If I hadn't been distracted and shocked at the rudeness I would have had words, grrr.

Re: Unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2016-12-22 06:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah no ignoring them doesn't always work because it means that you're ignoring an attempt to communicate a need and that's... Not a good thing to drill into your kid's head. But you're clearly offended by the idea someone suggest you do something (despite... doing things).
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Re: Unpopular opinions

[personal profile] otakugal15 2016-12-22 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you the parent? No? Then shut up.

Re: Unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2016-12-22 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
No. Don't want people to comment on your disruptive and harmful behavior? Then stay the fuck away from other people.
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Re: Unpopular opinions

[personal profile] otakugal15 2016-12-24 12:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not near you. And I will NOT go away and you salty little ass stain anons will never get rid of me.

But once again, are YOU the parent? No? The shut the fuck up and sit your salty ass down. And take a knife and slam it through your eye.