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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-12-22 04:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #3641 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3641 ⌋

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Re: How mad am I allowed to be at a friend who stopped talking to me (Vent)

(Anonymous) 2016-12-23 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
Your feelings are definitely valid.

However, you may need to adjust your expectations of this individual as a friend. He may be a jerk, or just clueless. People do grow apart, and it may have had nothing to do with anything you did. It's difficult to say whether you're a "back up friend" or if he just treats all his friends with the same regard. It's possible he didn't consider you as close a friend as you did him. That also happens. You may need to just do your own thing while he does his. Hang out with your other friends, or make some new ones. But I don't recommend holding onto whatever level of friendship you used to have, which feeds into the bitter feelings. Have fun with him when he comes, give him his present, and leave it at that. Expect nothing else from him. (/unsolicited)

I'm sorry. I know it sucks when someone doesn't think of you the way you think of them, even if that wasn't the case in the past.