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⌈ Secret Post #3641 ⌋

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Re: How mad am I allowed to be at a friend who stopped talking to me (Vent)

[caerbannog]

Aww anon <3

But then I keep thinking, what gives me the right to feel this way?

You are perfectly allowed to feel this way! You have lost a close friend, for reasons unknown to you. You're allowed to be upset, sad, angry, confused, hesitant, wary


I must have done something wrong if he didn't want to keep talking to me?
But why didn't he tell me if I did? And loop feelings back.

You might not have done anything wrong. As he did eventually contact you, I would hazard you haven't done anything wrong at all. It does just sound like he got all busy in life which could lead to being tired, not responding, drifting away...

Sometimes people just grow apart, sometimes one person grows apart and the other is left behind. Sometimes you'll be the first and sometimes the latter. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong, just your life has gone different ways! and sometimes close friendships go apart :(


I will say though. If you don't want to meet him, be it because of hurt feelings or waryness or you're not ready to be more casual friends...it is okay not to meet up with him! You really don't have to. If it was a mention, you can just ignore it. If it was a direct request, you can politely beg off and wish him a good trip.

Your feelings are valid :) <3