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[ SECRET POST #3648 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3648 ⌋

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02. http://i.imgur.com/rKr9hNU.jpg

Really? I mean... each to their own, you do you, etc., but that's pretty boring hair to give you that particular revelation...

"Hey, you don't know me, but let me bestow my pearls of wisdom on your perfectly innocuous secret by telling you about your bad taste in way that totally does not make me an asshole..."

JFC, OP, unclench! I just said it looked boring, not that it looked like the haircut that killed my dog and burnt down The Great Library of Alexandria! Learn to cope with mild criticism before you rupture something.

Not the OP. It just boggles me that people go through the trouble of commenting on a non-wanky secret by insulting the OP, even mildly. Like... why do that? Do you also walk up to strangers and tell them their sweater looks unflattering on them? It seems impolite to me.

...you do understand that half the point of this community is to comment on other people's secrets? If OP didn't want other people to see and comment on this, they could have a) kept it to themselves, or b) posted it to a site without a comments section. But they put it here.

So yes, if someone is standing around holding a sign saying "Tell me what you think of my sweater!", I would consider telling them if it didn't suit them. Also, that first comment took me less than 60 seconds to write. I'm not so busy that that's a terrible burden.

I do not agree with your assertion that posting an innocuous, non-wank stirring secret means you're welcoming other peoples' lack of civility in responses, i.e. "asking for it".

So, my original comment - each to their own [...] but that's pretty boring hair - was sufficiently uncivil, by your standards, for you to start dogwhistling rape culture?

Wow. Just, wow.
Fuck you, mate. Fuck this, fuck you, I'm out. I was willing to have this conversation when I thought you were just a pearl-clutching wowser, but it seems that you are, instead, a complete fucking wankhandle. Fuck off.

NAYRT

Can I tell you that 'complete fucking wankhandle' will be the next insult I use when I am annoyed with someone at work, thank you.

If it offends you, then feel free to leave off the last bit. I still stand by this, however: "I do not agree with your assertion that posting an innocuous, non-wank stirring secret means you're welcoming other peoples' lack of civility in responses."

But your above comment and subsequent name-calling doesn't really help your argument that you're not being impolite or uncivil.

But, no-one's even mentioned Hitler yet?

nayrt

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AYRT wasn't even being rude. Wtf. Just that it seemed weird to them that such a normal everyday boring hairstyle would tip the scales on 'hairporn' realization.

Calm down, yo.

...how was that even an insult to OP? it was literally just anon's opinion on the secret. Did you totally miss the point of this comm or something?

Are you really comparing a mild response to a secret that someone purposefully submitted with walking up to a random stranger and giving them an unsolicited comment? you can't not realize how different those two things are...

As someone who's only mid-season-5, it doesn't even look different (to me) than his normal hair.

AYRT - Same. I haven't watched that much Supernatural, but that pretty much looks like the haircut he's had in all the screenshot and gifs that have crossed my dash in the last few years.

It's quite a bit longer in front than his usual. He got to grow it out a bit, but he said he was happy when he cut it again. He also, as Demon!Dean, did some 'run fingers through hair' stuff that was...very fun. :)

Ah. I will happily admit I am terrible at noticing hair changes unless it's SUPER drastic. My boss at work cut off something like six inches but because her hair was still shoulder length I didn't notice. XD

Heee!

So much yes, on the running-fingers-through-hair. Very sex. Much hot. Wow.

Demon!Dean's hair was pretty "meh" to me, but *shrugs*

Maybe because it was an unexpected style on Dean, it made you notice it more than you would have otherwise? It's longer & more styled than his usual cut.

yummy seasonal popcorn mmmmmmm

I find that hair very standard-looking. It's kind of an in look right now though, so there must be a reason. I guess a lot of people like it. It's a bit of a douchebag haircut and not really a turn on, but just kinda...meh to me

I loved Demon!Dean's hair! So much longer (by comparison) than his 'usual' hair. :)

I love demon!Dean, but if you're looking for the good hair stuff, I suggest watching whatever episodes of Merlin Santiago Cabrera shows up in. Also, just look up Troy Palumalu's hair.

It's you. You're the Rocket Man.

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