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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-01-01 03:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3651 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3651 ⌋

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Re: What are the worst compliments you've been given?

[personal profile] skeletal_history 2017-01-01 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I've had my fair share of, "You'd be so pretty if you lost [5-50] pounds!"

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[Sorry, I don't know if I should put a trigger warning on this or not. The stuff below made me feel really gross, and it involves parents with inappropriate boundaries. I just want to vent it out of my system, I guess.]

A few months ago, I went on a trip to Russia with my dad (because I really wanted to go, and he's the only person I know who could go with me, because he's retired and he could afford the ticket). My dad and I have a strange, uncomfortable relationship (in my view; he doesn't think anything is wrong), but my desire to go to Russia outweighed my reluctance to share a room with him for 16 days, and things were actually going really well until the very last day, when he said this horrible thing:

"People here have told me they think you're very pretty.....they also think we're husband and wife." (Said in this revolting tone of voice I can't describe, but it was as though he had been really flattered when someone said that to him and it made him feel kinda bashful, and when he repeated it to me, he fully expected me to feel the same way.) This probably seems like NBD to most people but I can't articulate how horrible it made me feel and still does now.



Re: What are the worst compliments you've been given?

(Anonymous) 2017-01-02 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Yikes. I can completely understand why that bothered you.