[ SECRET POST #3654 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3654 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

Maybe I have known some asshatty people because I have known people to correct others when they're speaking. I once had a friend correct my vocabulary when I was speaking a certain way completely on purpose, it was both obnoxious and insulting.

I don't know that "people will judge" is really a great justification for judging is all I'm saying. If I can't change that people judge, by the same token you can't change the way other people speak and maybe you need to find ways to make it less annoying for you?

Maybe turn "Umm" into a mythical creature like the Alot: http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/2010/04/alot-is-better-than-you-at-everything.html

[ketita]

It's not justification, it's reality. If your communication has certain quirks to it, some people may notice, and some people may tailor their interactions with you based on it. Not everyone. And some people may notice but not care. And some people may not notice at all.
I have no idea why you're trying to turn me into this crazed Judgey McJudgerson who is unable to talk to people without "finding ways to make it less annoying for me", what the hell.

All I said above was that you can choose to be aware of your own communication tics, and you can choose whether or not you care to do something about it. I have certain verbal tics that I eliminated because *I* wanted to, not for anybody else.

It's clear to me that you're taking my general comment and making it very personal, because of your own experiences. I'm sorry you went through that. Talk however you want to talk.