[ SECRET POST #3666 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3666 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I leave as soon as the pot comes out. Having a family member who basically blazed their brains out and managed to irreparably damage not only their own life but that of my family as well based on his fucking habit doesn't make for a huge love of potheads.

[(Anonymous)]

That's where my nephew's at right now. Come on, kid. I know you have anxiety, and the pot helps your anxiety, but there's a fine line between "hey, I'm feeling kind of stressed out so I'll smoke a joint" and the veritable pallets he's burning up. He's a bright, ambitions guy! Just... not very often anymore.

I know it's not the pot, it's him using the pot as a coping mechanism for god knows what things he needs to go to therapy for, but I guess it's the same way some people view alcohol after watching people who had all the potential in the world just dash all their hopes and dreams away for another drink.

[(Anonymous)]

That's the thing. It's not even necessarily the pot itself, it's all that comes with the addiction. It's obviously not the case for everyone, but like alcoholism, it's a whole package of issues, not just the "being drunk" part.

[(Anonymous)]

My brother in law is at that place right now. He smokes to deal with anxiety (and other issues), rather than get therapy. He decided to make his full time job part time and go home and ... smoke pot, and play videogames. He's not dumb either, he could go into a trade perfectly fine and support himself.

Pot can be used like a crutch, and a bad one, just like alcohol.

[(Anonymous)]

Your BIL isn't in Oregon, is he? Because I have a friend that describes TO A T.

[wannabe_influential]

My mother's boyfriend was in a motorcycle accident over a year ago and now has memory problems and mood swings. Thinking it would help, his mother and mine started buying him weed.

The only thing it has made him is a pothead and an asshole. Every morning he asks "Where's the weed at?" until one of us gets it for him, has my mother clean his bowl for him, and tries to get her to smoke with him, even though she constantly tells him that if she does, she might lose her job and won't be able to pay for his house.

I was curious about weed before, but after this, I'm done. If only because smoking it would remind me of him

[(Anonymous)]

Fair warning: You can totally blow a drug test if he's smoking around people.

[wannabe_influential]

Yeah, my mom knows that and tries to tell him that. His response? To sneak up behind her and blow weed smoke in her face.

[diet_poison]

wow she needs to kick him the fuck out. what is that bullshit.

[wannabe_influential]

We're living in his house -___- The situation just really sucks, all in all

[diet_poison]

ugh, yeah...

I'm not gonna get all judgy and I don't know your mom's situation, or yours. but it sucks that she's in that relationship, is all. it might not be economically viable for her to leave (I have no idea) but it is obviously not a healthy relationship and it super sucks that it sounds like you're caught up in it. :(

[wannabe_influential]

Hey, I know this thread is a few months old, but I just wanted to let you know, me and my mother finally got out of there.

We're not totally out of the woods yet, a lot of our stuff is still at his house and we're living with my grandparents right now and looking for a house/apartment, but still.

We got out, and I'm so glad.

[diet_poison]

hey, wow, thanks for the update, and I'm glad too!

I hope you find another place soon and get back as much of your stuff as possible. Here's hoping it only improves from here. ♥

[wannabe_influential]

My mother has gotten a new boyfriend, and the three of us are living in a rented house together

Still have some of our stuff (Mostly mine) over there, but I'm happy

[diet_poison]

I hope he's a decent guy. :)