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⌈ Secret Post #3668 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Tinder/Online Dating

[sarillia]

I'm very frustrated with OKC right now. I keep finding women who reply to my messages with the bare minimum response to what I said and nothing else. Like if I asked a question in the midst of the message to try to get a conversation going, they give the briefest possible answer to the question and don't say anything else. I don't know what to do with that. Do they expect me to say something else after that? I prefer when they just don't reply because at least then I know for sure that they're not interested instead of wondering if they're just really bad at conversation.

I've considered checking out Tinder just to broaden the pool of people to meet but I don't have a Facebook and I'm not going to finally give in and get one just for this.

Re: Tinder/Online Dating

[(Anonymous)]

That's the worst. I still have an OKC and I used to use it a lot - met some amazing women through it! I loved how it felt a little less sleazy and really tried to get you do look at personality and compatibility, and you could even use it just to meet friends. But I know what you mean, when you're trying to keep the conversation going and you get the minimum possible response, or responses that don't further the conversation. It's one thing to say, well, they probably just aren't into you - but I feel like half the time, these people were the ones who reached out to me first. And I agree, I'd rather they not reply at all, I don't take it personally, and anyway, you can always wonder if maybe the person just got busy with life or hasn't logged in for some reason. :P

I hate that Tinder is tied to Facebook. I do have a Facebook, but I didn't want to tie that account to Tinder. So I made a Facebook just for Tinder, that's completely blank except for a few photos.