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fandomsecrets2008-05-07 05:05 pm
[ SECRET POST #488 ]
⌈ Secret Post #488 ⌋
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12. A side nit-pick: Making gay characters straight isn't really the same thing. Gay characters are almost always definitely gay. They say outright that they're gay, they talk about being gay. Whereas most of the straight characters that are slashed are simply assumed to be straight; unless they've said "I am completely straight," just because they've only been in a relationship with the opposite sex on screen does not mean you can assume that they would never be in a same-relationship.
(Not to mention that making gay characters straight perpetuates the very real, harmful believe that GLB folks can "change," while there is no similar belief about how straight folks should "turn" gay for their own good.)
Re: 12
(Anonymous) 2008-05-08 06:18 am (UTC)(link)Re: 12
It's the idea that "well, Character X has not said that s/he likes the same sex, so it's impossible for him/her to be in a same-sex relationship" that I believe is wrong (whereas "Character X has said s/he is not interested in the opposite sex / would never be in an heterosexual relationship," whether or not you think sexuality is fluid, is a more valid argument). It's not that sexuality is fluid only for one group, it's that the sexuality is assumed.
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(Anonymous) 2008-05-08 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)Because I see a lot of fandom contradicting that; I see phrases like "oh he's just overcompensating", or "he's in denial" about a character implicitly or explicitly demonstrating their preference for the opposite sex, in essence because they prefer him paired with another male character. The instances I was thinking of when I made the secret were largely male characters who were attracted to/dated/slept with women, and showed no interest in doing so with men. That was my issue with the OOC comment. I know not all yaoi/slash fans do this, but I seem to see more that do than don't.
Re: 12
I think an argument about an explicitly straight character "overcompensating" could be made -- depending on the character -- but it would be open to a lot more valid debate and criticism. That I don't take any issue with.