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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-21 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #3702 ]


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Re: How to deal with anger?

(Anonymous) 2017-02-22 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but I'd echo what the other anon said. It's nice that you could do that, but you should probably ask yourself if it's truly necessary. How did your mom manage to do her taxes before you could help her? What would she do if you weren't around or available to help?

When you're the stable, together person in the family, it's easy to fall into the role of Caretaker of Everything. But honestly, it's not always a good idea. It's one thing to need a little help now and then because everyone does! But your family should be able to survive and even thrive without you, or there's something really wrong here. Your situation right now proves it. You have a limited amount of emotional resources, and you can't always spend it on other people. It'd be best for you and your family if they learned how to do things for themselves rather than waiting for you to bail them out.