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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-22 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3703 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3703 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
From the way OP sounds (considering throwing away what could [without further info] be a good relationship because their SO has no interest in watching a show they like) maybe OP's boyfriend is worried about watching an episode of a show he might not like, and then creating an argument with OP when he says, "Okay I've watched it, I don't like it."

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
OP didn't say one way or the other so you're assuming that it might be an otherwise good relationship. Personally, if OP's contemplating breaking up over a TV show (no matter how important or beloved) then I'm gonna go with "Maybe it ain't that good".

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, which is why I did say 'what COULD be (without further info) a good relationship'.

We're going off almost no extraneous info so it could be this is a 'last straw' or excuse to break up, or it could be that OP is an inflexible controlling douchenozzle. Who knows, right?

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
LOL, right. But apparently there are a few people in this thread who know for sure that OP is being dumb for even thinking about breaking up.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
If OP didn't want us to this not watching Star Trek was the only reason they want to break up, OP should have said so.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, OP should've laid out the entire dynamics of their relationship in the secret, anything else is just plain unreasonable!

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

I mean, OP could have said, "My SO refuses to even watch one episode of TNG, and this is the last straw when it comes to not giving my interests any chance." and then no one would be taking this point blank that they're so inflexible that NOT LIKING A TV SHOW is a first straw.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
Which is totally unlike the people who just TOTALLY know for sure that this isn't ~just~ about the show, it's about deeper issues (even there is exactly zero evidence or reason for this assumption in the secret itself).
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[personal profile] thewakokid 2017-02-23 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I mean, if she's considering throwing it away over something so trivial, that would point to it not being so very good a relationship. For her at least. I mean, if that's the thing that's going to do it, how would the relationship have stood against the real shit?

I do think it's a mistake, and sounds fairly impulsive and a little trivial, but if it's enough for her to decide to end the relationship, well there it is.