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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-22 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3703 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3703 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Is this the only problem with your relationship? If so, don't break up. It's important to learn that you're not always going to share the same interests, and that's OK. Media is very rarely a good reason to break up.

Is this actually an excuse you're giving yourself because something else about the relationship isn't sitting right with you, and you need an excuse to break up? If this is the case, it might be right to break up. Try to figure out what about it feels wrong to you. Maybe it's an important thing that's being masked by your Star Trek feelings.

I'm sure there are plenty of people who will share your interests out there, and maybe it's worth waiting and trying to find one...but if you have a good and compatible relationship in other ways, it's probably better to just not share every interest.

In long term relationships, especially successful ones, partners normally don't share all the same interests.

Think about it, OP. I wish you well!

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Seconded.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
This is reasonable.
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2017-02-23 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Sound advice.