case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-22 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3703 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3703 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.



__________________________________________________



07.












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 14 secrets from Secret Submission Post #529.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Ok OP, I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt here. I vote you don't break up w him unless there's other problems in the relationship....but with regards to the TNG thing, if it's really important to you that he watch it with you (and I DO understand the want to share the thing you love with the person you're seeing), here's what you do. You pick an episode that is one of your faves that kinda stands alone, and you say to your boyfriend "look. I really really want you to watch this show with me, so can you watch this one episode? And afterwards if you don't like it, I'll never try to get you to watch any more. But I want you to actually try it before you give me a hard no" - but here's the thing though - if he agrees and then he doesn't like it, YOU CANNOT (CAN NOT) TRY TO GET HIM TO WATCH IT ANY MORE. You have to respect the fact that he tried it and he didn't like it.

Not gonna lie, if he refuses to even do that, I don't think that's grounds for a breakup, but I personally would think it was grounds for a conversation about why he's completely unwilling to even try out a thing you like.