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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-03-21 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #3730 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3730 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Movie: 8Uppers, Actor/Singer: Nishikido Ryo]


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[Psych, Shawn/Jules]


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[Gentlemen Prefer Blondes]


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[Yuri on Ice]


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[Irish comedian Ed Byrne and the Great British Bake Off]


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[Pokemon B/W]


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[Overwatch]







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Re: Worst qualities of generally good people

(Anonymous) 2017-03-22 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
People who take any sort of criticism or negativity way too personally/seriously.

"Could you please return my stapler?" should not translate to "You are a worthless pathetic excuse for a human being who can't even remember something simple like returning things you borrow, also I hate you and your pets are ugly."

I mean I get it, it's not like they're trying to have mental health issues at me, and I know it sucks dealing with that. But it's not good for my sanity either to constantly try and second guess what's going to set someone off. I start getting paranoid that they're getting upset on purpose in order to keep my stapler forever because if I'm too afraid to ask then they never have to return it.

And obviously this is stupidly complicated because I don't want to argue that I should be able to go "You haven't returned my stapler yet, have you? Figures. You never return anything on time, you lazy hosebeast." and har har they're just words why are they getting upset that's so dumb they need to toughen up special snowflake cuck.