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⌈ Secret Post #3755 ⌋

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Re: Sad (and/or stupid) reasons you've let go of friendships

[(Anonymous)]

Sad:

- Facebook friend disowned her son on Facebook. As in, they had a huge blow-up on their feeds for everyone to see. Her son did sound like a bratty asshole, but the way she was talking to him was just as awful.

Stupid:

- This is awful and I regret it so much, but when my large fandom's canon closed, I sensed my friends were drifting from the fandom and didn't want to lose them. How did I handle this? By getting mad at them for talking too much about their new fandoms. I remarkably only lost one friendship from it, but I was so irrationally bitchy and still feel terrible. Unfortunately she's not on LJ anymore so I can't apologize. :(

- I kind of became convinced a friend in an RP group was lying, because a bunch of bad things happened to her at once just as she was having issues with another one of our friends. Some of the others agreed with me that she was full of shit. She really was an unpleasant person, so I don't regret that the friendship ended, but... here I am now in what feels like a serious soap opera scenario of my own. So I now realize it can happen, it just happened that in her case, she tended to stir shit, so we all doubted it.

(I mean, maybe she really was lying. It wouldn't surprise me. But I don't think there was any particular reason to believe that she was, other than knowing she liked to start arguments and was a little hard on the one friend.)

... actually, that whole RP group is a clusterfuck of regret. We were mostly nice enough and non-dramatic on our own, but for whatever reason we ramped up the drama in a group. Which sucks because how we started was so far from all of that.

Re: Sad (and/or stupid) reasons you've let go of friendships

[(Anonymous)]

My feeling is this: if your kid is a bratty asshole, well, you raised him. You don't like how he turned out, that's straight up admitting you dropped the ball as a parent.