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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-15 02:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3755 ]


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Re: Sad (and/or stupid) reasons you've let go of friendships

[personal profile] randomdrops 2017-04-16 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
I realized that with some of my friends I was doing all the 'work' in the friendship. I'd call them, I'd make the plans, I'd drive far to visit them, I'd come and support their college or work events or promotions or whatever. I started to get annoyed. So as an experiment of sorts I stopped making an effort. I stopped calling or emailing or making plans. That was 5 years ago now and I've not heard from any of them.

One of them will message me now and then about how they miss me and get all nostalgic, but when it comes down to it they never want to make actual plans.