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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-15 02:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3755 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3755 ⌋

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caerbannog: (Default)

When have you accidentally made drama?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2017-04-16 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Cause my accidental fandom rift drama is still going even though I only made one comment that I guess was the last straw. Something about "both sides have equal blame we all made harsh comments" (i made 1, you guys been making like 5 posts a day for 8 days) and a whoooole lot of conspiracy posts.

It is making me :( but also :) this is the biggest drama I have ever made with the least amount of effort :) but also :( this dude needs like...a therapist and drugs stat cause crazy

Also my poor puppy has a concussion and it's stressing me out a little, vet says he will be ok but he doesn't LOOK ok D:

So when did you accidentally make drama? when did it stop bothering you? I've blocked and blacklisted and since discovering the wildcard function that is working really well but ppl are like...messaging me screenshots to laugh over and i have to keep being "yike they still going that sad can u not show me that im literally not looking"

caerbannog is :c cause crazy dude in fandom gone crazy

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-16 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry about your puppy and I hope it's okay ;_;

And re: starting drama, I usually try hard not to but sometimes I'm too honest when people get me one on one and then they take it as a sign that they can go fight about something because it gave them more fuel for whatever grudge they were already holding.

One specific instance I can think of was this girl had ripped off my art, I didn't really care that she had copied me but my usual policy is if that you do it I want to be credited (and if it's a close copy I don't want it sold anywhere, but it wasn't being sold.) But apparently she was also a messy person in general (I usually did my best to stay civil with her but even in my civil interactions with her I could tell she was a mess) and a few people used this as an excuse to go all in on her.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2017-04-16 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
oh man that's hard D: I don't think my drama is having people use it as an excuse to really go at someone, I'm not sure. Maybe blacklists is going too well? I get the impression some random anons are involved and they're being blamed on me too, even though I've not named or linked to any troublemakers.

At this point i want to be like "man you're really fucked up and i hope you get help" but thatd make them explode more im sure.

Puppy will be ok I think :) He just...very swollen and bruised and it looks disgusting.

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-16 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no, Thyme! I hope he feels better soon. :(

I once stirred up shit in one place and it unexpectedly spilled over into another. I was rather pleased with myself because the place drama spilled over into a place full of people I hated, and at the time no one made the connection that I was the one behind it.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2017-04-16 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
He snuffles the screen in thanks.

Oh! Opposite situations haha! I mean i think mine is certainly spilling me over? i think i care a little more than usual because I wasn't intending and didn't think one comment would make for a now week long explosion when everyone was tldr posts all over the place.

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-16 06:05 am (UTC)(link)
Echoing the good wishes for your puppy! Poor little guy :(.
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2017-04-16 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
He jumped in the car all on his own today! I'm proud!

Still gotta help him down tho.

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-16 06:35 am (UTC)(link)
I've managed to make drama here with secrets I thought were pretty innocuous.

I once posted one about how it bugged me when a porny fic will give a detailed description of the disrobing before sex, but with no reference to shoe removal. I was thinking of "rush inside and slam each other against the inside of the door without pausing to toe your shoes off" scenarios, or sex outside/in a car/in a broom closet and other times the characters are most likely have shoes on. I put in a disclaimer that this doesn't apply to situations where characters wouldn't be wearing shoes. Apparently I should have made the disclaimer more elaborate or in a larger font size, because the commemt thread was 98% people flipping out over "LOTS OF PEOPLE TAKE THEIR SHOES OFF AT HOME LEAVING YOUR SHOES ON IS GROSS!" and I was like wtf? How did everyone get stuck on that idea?
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2017-04-16 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
OH I REMEMBER THAT ONE. Did that lead into the barefoot grass drama a few days later or am I remembering wrong?

Sorry your secret got derailed. I prob made a comment of sorts about the "shoe scene" from those old dark elf adventure books.

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-16 09:38 am (UTC)(link)
Hahaha, I had something similar happen...posted a secret lamenting porny artists giving flat-chested characters big boobs, and half the responses were "some people like big boobs!" Then why you drawing flat characters, and not the busty characters who would fit your preferences?

Re: When have you accidentally made drama?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-16 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I was always friends with both sides, but made the mistake of reaching out to one to do something for the community as a whole, no ulterior motives at all, but someone I considered a friend massively exploded on me and blamed me for a lot of stuff that actually wasn't me (I don't know who it was, but I have my suspicions). I had witnesses, but ended up leaving the community anyway, which I still regret :(